Sunday, January 16, 2005

What morals do we really have?

When you hear about a teenage lady and a 40 year old man are seen together we all say child rapist, don't we?! Everyday I see some old fart dating or "married" to this young bombshell, I want to tell them that they married them or are with them just for what little cash they may or may not have. That is not the point of this entry.

Who says that older women can date younger men, and most people have a tendency to say "Good for her". Most men say good for him he got a hot older chick all of the new sexual tricks he will learn, hot. But when a forty year old man dates a younger women of say 19 we all think Gross! However most men his age think sweet, he ditched the old ball and chian for this hot thing, just out of high school. What pisses me off is that because of T.V and News, people are afraid to date eachother because of the age differences. However, in the early years it was bery common for men to marry younger women. I'm not sure if younger men married older women, however, I do disagree with that. When younger men date older women, as my mom would say " It should be for a good time, not a long time." I have to agree with that in away. The cons of dating older women, Depending on the age, No kids, + and -, new sexual exprencies, short life expectency + and -. But women who date much older men they have to deal with immpotence and a weaker eraction. So I say as long as it is okay with both parties then let them be, provding that it's not a 16 year old and a 40+ year old going together, that should be the moral line of this socitey. Maybe I am just not really stating the point I wanted to, but I have stated one point that I agree with. There need to be a line drawn, but the only people that can make that point are the people that involved. So as children we have to let are parents know of the intenions we have with that person and to be honest with that other person and with ourselves.
AS we grow and raise our own children we must remeber that once they start dating, we can nolonger run their life. For fear that they will be pushed away and not aloud to say "told you so", just be a less blunt then that when all goes wrong, after all we had thoughs kids to show love, determion, strength, and for someone to take care of us when we leave our indepent lives and go back into diapers. If we put a wedge between us and our kids, we might have to go into a home, or worse yet not get the hot nurse that is hired to take care of us. So in short, what is the best way to let kids grow up?

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